Monthly Archives: October 2020

Beautiful…luminosity and kindness

Today sees the rising of the new moon…

and here to complement that are two poems shared by Shambhala Publications from a book of poetry: The First Free Women – Poems of the early Buddhist nuns.

This collection  of poems was composed around the time of the Buddha and called the Therigatha, which translates as ‘verses of the elder nuns’.  It has been revived by Matty Weingast.

Buddahadarma notes that these were written long before it was safe to utter the words ‘women’ and ‘liberation’ in the same sentence… we are now so very fortunate.

The open heart is not ‘gender biased’ in nature, nurture… nor availability

“Punna ~ Full”
Fill yourself
with
the Dharma.
When you
are as
full
as the
full
moon—
burst open.
Make the dark night shine.
“Grandma Sumana”
After
all those years
looking after others,
this old heart
has finally
learned
to look
after
itself.
Each act of kindness
a stitch in this warm blanket
that now covers me
while I sleep.

Emptiness and fulness – the kindness ahhh…

James is speaking on the potential depth of that tomorrow…

Our true kindness, arising from our openness, is of a very different quality from our intentional and conceptualised efforts.

If you  are not able to listen tomorrow no doubt it will be up on the website shortly… but you may find the transcript of an earlier talk on this topic – Emptiness equanimity and kindness  illuminating…like the full moon bursting through the clouds!!!

New Moon image:wikipedia uploaded to Flicr byQuimGil license: creative commons 

Emails… Open only if you’re sure….

Some may be helpful to read…. but on checking whether sender, senders address, spelling, spacing, and sense match with what you know already… some need to go straight in the bin.

If you should receive an email from Simply Being (South West) …perhaps  from admin (ha ha!), or something similar… with perhaps just a link in it… please don’t click the link… simply delete.     If you check the senders address it may start with ‘wordpress’ (which is incorrect)…
if you’re expecting something from me then the senders address will be different from that.

If you are unsure you can always send an email to check with me  before opening…

So that’s the binnable bit…

the next bit may be more helpful to read…..

 

I wrote the email below to a dharma student earlier in the yearand it seems to chime with the teachings of the past weekend and includes the link to ‘The healing power of emptiness’ which James referred to towards the end on Sunday… so i have pasted it below.

 

Begin forwarded message:
From: Wendy 
Subject: Re: On becoming unstuffed!
Date: 1 March 2020 at 11:19:03 GMT
To:   

 

I wrote this in response to a question you raised on Thursday evening.
We have some time associated with this human body and life, but we do not know how long. What so what will we do with it?
The call to awakening  is the call to the ending of suffering…to the arising of wisdom and compassion; it is the blackbirds song and the song of every apparent thing which shows and goes…but who hears what it is indicating?
Over thousands of years many have… but the majority are deafened by cacophony –  thoughts ‘about’ every apparent ‘thing’…
This kind of thinking – thinking ‘about’ – is limited in value  because it occurs in an abstracted state…remote from the lived, actual situation… it takes you out of the flow of life and creates further cloudiness.
Sometimes this kind of thinking, spun by the energy of our attention, goes round and round, chewing up the time of our lives with no conclusion because there is no satisfaction, no completion – no end to thoughts
But  often we feel we can come to a conclusion ( more thoughts) about whatever thoughts it is that we were thinking about
and this satisfies the ego’s desire for a personal certainty and stability: ‘I know!’ ‘ I know how it is’   ‘It is how I think it is!’
So few of our activities move us in the direction of wisdom. Usually, because of prior energetic investment flowing with our interest, we move towards towards greater enmeshment with whatever seem to be our ‘own’ current priorities, beliefs, and desires …
But these interests arise from many connections through family, cultural, and social connections and transiently we attach to them, but with bias and a karmic drivenness,  to give clothing to our limited and transient egoic sense-of-self.
At  the end of this public talk  The Healing Power of Emptiness  which James gave in 2013, he hopes that the talk, although maybe surprising, is helpful.
It is such an extraordinary move in the direction of wisdom that i’m sure the public was indeed surprised! (This is the talk James just recommended at the weekend people have a look at.)
You’ll see that it gives an outline of how we get lost and what is hidden by our agitation in our pseudo-separation and our false fixed notions of identification…
The ultimate truth is very different from how we ordinarily see things
and the kind of ‘happiness’ that goes with that is worlds apart from what arises when ‘I get what I want’ which, strangely, is itself a cause of suffering.
So if you’d like to, take your time with this, and let me know if I can help unpack any aspect that is not clear…
In my experience seeing how it makes sense is one thing –
making  that ‘non-journey’ from here as we are not… to here as we are…is another.
But however many slips and slides along the way
it is the journey most worth making!
love
Wendy
Photo credit   http://Ludovic Péron                    creative commons license